Thursday, November 26, 2009
Monday, November 16, 2009
"I Don't Need Anything, Except Some Shoes."
Those of you who have been following this blog for a while probably remember the amazing, heartwarming story last Christmas of the outpouring of generosity and love I received for the students in my class. If you don't remember, or you're a new reader, click here for the rundown of what happened last year.
I decided I wasn't going to sit back and watch my kids go through another holiday season receiving absolutely nothing. I was going to try to make a difference (it's why I do what I do, after all) and at least try to do something about it.
And it worked. Oh my gosh, it worked. That day last year in my classroom will forever go down as one of the greatest days in my life.
Well, here we are again. This year might even be more desperate than last year due to the economy and budget cuts everywhere you turn. In a nutshell: I work in a very impoverished school district. Over 95% of our kiddos qualify for the free and reduced lunch program. We have a huge homeless population and have many kids who only eat at school every day. I had been tossing around the idea of trying to organize this whole gift thing again and the thought of it was a bit exhausting. It was so much work last year (totally worth it), and I just didn't know if I had it in me again this time around.
However, two things happened that changed my mind. The first is my wonderful friend Sgt. Alex contacted me and said he and his base wants to contribute this year again to my students...but they want to make it bigger! They want to get gifts to the entire 2nd grade! When he called me and told me that, I thought if he is willing to go to all that trouble for kiddos he's never even met, then I can surely do my part as well. The second thing that changed my mind is what follows: we had our 2nd graders write some letters to Santa asking for what they would like for Christmas. If it's even possible, they are even sadder this year than they were last. Here are a few excerpts from them: (I'm not going to edit anything they say...typos and all)
"I nide food for my famli beause my dad has a boss woo doesnt want him to work anymor."
"...a penciles and an eraser because I have none."
"...two pair of shoos because my are ripet on the botom. I also need a bed because I never had one."
"...I would like some pencils because I am allmost done and I only hav the one pencil. I want a cote and a good life. It is hard."
"...I don't want nothing but my sider needs a coat."
"...a Hannah Montana doll because it is fun to play with dolls and I've always wanted one but only mi sister has a doll and when I wanted a doll mi mom said we didn't have enuf money yet for a doll."
"...I neeb food and socks becaue my socks all have holls."
"......I need some new sock and shoes because mine sock are riped back at home."
"...and I want a good book to read at my house."
"...I want to hav shoes and cluz for my sister and me."
"...I would please like to have some more frute and some glofs because I did not have some before."
"...I don't need anything but please get my teacher Mssis Corzine some books for the classroom because we ripped her books."
Now this is just a few of the replies. Imagine 110 letters...almost every single one of them is just like this. I've actually got tears in my eyes as I sit here in my nice warm house, working on my laptop, tripping over all of Maelin's toys and I can't even fathom what it would be like as a parent to not be able to afford fruit for my child. Or shoes. Or a pencil. Or socks. Or not be able to bundle them up in a coat when it's cold outside. To watch them trudge away in ripped socks, holey shoes and no coat when it's 20 degrees outside.
So again, I'm making my passionate plea to all of you: you were so incredibly generous last year and I'm hoping we can get even a fraction of that again this year. Here's the deal: We'll take anything EXCEPT cash/checks. Gift cards to Wal-Mart would be the most helpful because we could trade them in for gifts and the Wal-Mart here in Commerce City gives us tax-exempt status. We'd also love any chapter books, school supplies, etc. I will take care of making sure every child in the entire 2nd grade will get something new this Christmas.
Please send what you can to:
Alsup Elementary School
c/o Mara Corzine
7101 Birch Street
Commerce City, CO 80022
I'll need everything in the school by December 14 so I can have time to wrap and distribute. Again, thank you for caring about these kids. Anything you can send us will be greatly appreciated!! Let's show these kids that people do care about them and that they matter!!
I decided I wasn't going to sit back and watch my kids go through another holiday season receiving absolutely nothing. I was going to try to make a difference (it's why I do what I do, after all) and at least try to do something about it.
And it worked. Oh my gosh, it worked. That day last year in my classroom will forever go down as one of the greatest days in my life.
Well, here we are again. This year might even be more desperate than last year due to the economy and budget cuts everywhere you turn. In a nutshell: I work in a very impoverished school district. Over 95% of our kiddos qualify for the free and reduced lunch program. We have a huge homeless population and have many kids who only eat at school every day. I had been tossing around the idea of trying to organize this whole gift thing again and the thought of it was a bit exhausting. It was so much work last year (totally worth it), and I just didn't know if I had it in me again this time around.
However, two things happened that changed my mind. The first is my wonderful friend Sgt. Alex contacted me and said he and his base wants to contribute this year again to my students...but they want to make it bigger! They want to get gifts to the entire 2nd grade! When he called me and told me that, I thought if he is willing to go to all that trouble for kiddos he's never even met, then I can surely do my part as well. The second thing that changed my mind is what follows: we had our 2nd graders write some letters to Santa asking for what they would like for Christmas. If it's even possible, they are even sadder this year than they were last. Here are a few excerpts from them: (I'm not going to edit anything they say...typos and all)
"I nide food for my famli beause my dad has a boss woo doesnt want him to work anymor."
"...a penciles and an eraser because I have none."
"...two pair of shoos because my are ripet on the botom. I also need a bed because I never had one."
"...I would like some pencils because I am allmost done and I only hav the one pencil. I want a cote and a good life. It is hard."
"...I don't want nothing but my sider needs a coat."
"...a Hannah Montana doll because it is fun to play with dolls and I've always wanted one but only mi sister has a doll and when I wanted a doll mi mom said we didn't have enuf money yet for a doll."
"...I neeb food and socks becaue my socks all have holls."
"......I need some new sock and shoes because mine sock are riped back at home."
"...and I want a good book to read at my house."
"...I want to hav shoes and cluz for my sister and me."
"...I would please like to have some more frute and some glofs because I did not have some before."
"...I don't need anything but please get my teacher Mssis Corzine some books for the classroom because we ripped her books."
Now this is just a few of the replies. Imagine 110 letters...almost every single one of them is just like this. I've actually got tears in my eyes as I sit here in my nice warm house, working on my laptop, tripping over all of Maelin's toys and I can't even fathom what it would be like as a parent to not be able to afford fruit for my child. Or shoes. Or a pencil. Or socks. Or not be able to bundle them up in a coat when it's cold outside. To watch them trudge away in ripped socks, holey shoes and no coat when it's 20 degrees outside.
So again, I'm making my passionate plea to all of you: you were so incredibly generous last year and I'm hoping we can get even a fraction of that again this year. Here's the deal: We'll take anything EXCEPT cash/checks. Gift cards to Wal-Mart would be the most helpful because we could trade them in for gifts and the Wal-Mart here in Commerce City gives us tax-exempt status. We'd also love any chapter books, school supplies, etc. I will take care of making sure every child in the entire 2nd grade will get something new this Christmas.
Please send what you can to:
Alsup Elementary School
c/o Mara Corzine
7101 Birch Street
Commerce City, CO 80022
I'll need everything in the school by December 14 so I can have time to wrap and distribute. Again, thank you for caring about these kids. Anything you can send us will be greatly appreciated!! Let's show these kids that people do care about them and that they matter!!
Halloween 2009...Our Cranky Little Witch
Halloween has come and gone again this year...and again, Maelin was pretty sick for it. If you'll remember Halloween last year, she did not feel good for most of it but was able to rally enough to enjoy trick-or-treating like the little trooper that she is. Exactly the same thing this year. The poor little thing had come down with a double ear infection and general fever/grumpiness. It was so sad. Plus...we were hit with a pretty big snowstorm about 3 days before so it was pretty chilly.
Nonetheless...armed with Auntie Kat, Uncle Jeff, Elmo and our handmade-by-Grandma Lea-Witch-Costume, we headed out to trick-or-treat. Honestly, Mae didn't care that much about knocking on doors and getting candy. She was much more excited about being allowed to walk in the street. Naturally, we never let her do that so it was a pretty big deal for her. We knocked on exactly 2 doors before she got so feisty about the whole business, we just gave up and walked around the block. Then we got home and tried to stop Uncle from stealing all of Maelin's candy (one of the pics of this is below...she's like, "Dude..stop stealing my candy!")
The biggest thing I want to remember about Halloween is how much fun each holiday is becoming. We're slowly creating our own traditions with our little one and she's starting to understand what's going on so much better. Every day it seems she's changed a bit more, learned something new, and responds so much better to what's going on around her. She's the absolute light of my life and I'm so excited for what's next...except I wish she'd slow down the growing up just a bit.
Nonetheless...armed with Auntie Kat, Uncle Jeff, Elmo and our handmade-by-Grandma Lea-Witch-Costume, we headed out to trick-or-treat. Honestly, Mae didn't care that much about knocking on doors and getting candy. She was much more excited about being allowed to walk in the street. Naturally, we never let her do that so it was a pretty big deal for her. We knocked on exactly 2 doors before she got so feisty about the whole business, we just gave up and walked around the block. Then we got home and tried to stop Uncle from stealing all of Maelin's candy (one of the pics of this is below...she's like, "Dude..stop stealing my candy!")
The biggest thing I want to remember about Halloween is how much fun each holiday is becoming. We're slowly creating our own traditions with our little one and she's starting to understand what's going on so much better. Every day it seems she's changed a bit more, learned something new, and responds so much better to what's going on around her. She's the absolute light of my life and I'm so excited for what's next...except I wish she'd slow down the growing up just a bit.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
PTA: Not For Parents Anymore
All the research proves it and you don't have to go far to find it. I'm talking about the fact that the number one factor in whether or not kids succeed in school is the amount of parental involvement.
According to researchers Karen Smith Conway (professor of economics at the University of New Hampshire) and Andrew Houtenville (senior research associate at New Editions Consulting), parental involvement has a strong, positive effect on student achievement.
“Parental effort is consistently associated with higher levels of achievement, and the magnitude of the effect of parental effort is substantial,” Conway said. “We found that schools would need to increase per-pupil spending by more than $1,000 in order to achieve the same results that are gained with parental involvement.”
(Click here for an excellent article by the Michigan Department of Education on the research-based benefits of strong parental involvement in schools.)
So after spending thousands of dollars and over 9 years attaining my BA and MA in Education and Psychology, after spending countless hours in workshops, classes and professional development seminars, and after spending days, weeks, months, years and my heart and soul teaching kids, I found myself at my school's monthly PTA (Parent-Teacher Association) meeting tonight. I am one of the teachers delegated to be a representative and I believe strongly in the positive affects that a strong PTA can have on a community. Especially one of our social-economic status.
I was exhausted: I've worked all day and Maelin has been having a hard time lately. There's been extra drama we've all been dealing with and she's been going through a "Mommy Stage" lately. Sandra literally had to yank her off of me this morning so I could get to work on time. She was grabbing my neck and screaming, "Momma...Momma...don't leave you!" and sobbing hysterically. Needless to say, I cried all the way to work.
But I digress. So there I was at the PTA meeting with 2 other teachers, the principal, the school secretary and the assistant principal. We have been advertising this meeting for weeks: it's on the school marquee sign, it's in the monthly and weekly newsletters, we put stickers on each kid on the day of the meeting to remind the parents and we send home PTA brochures in English and in Spanish at least 3 times a year inviting everyone and anyone to please come join us.
We have a school population of about 595. Guess how many parents were at the PTA tonight?
Three. There were 3 parents there. The President, the Secretary and the Treasurer. That's it folks. Not a single parent came besides the officers. Not a one.
Oh, there's many reasons for this. Lots of our parents work 2, 3, or even 4 jobs. We offer free baby-sitting so the parents know they could bring the kids and we'll watch them for you, so that's not the issue. Some parents don't have transportation to get there...but our school is smack-dab in the middle of a ton of houses where I know for a fact our kiddos live, so it's not that far of a walk. We also provide translation services so if a Spanish-speaking parent wanted to come, everything would be translated.
So what's the problem? I wish I knew.
It's really hard to get behind the government's push to create better schools, hire better teachers, raise test scores when I KNOW that if we could just get the darn parents to support their child and the school, our scores would skyrocket! There's nothing I can do about that...except to continue to provide food for the PTA meetings.
And then bring all the uneaten leftovers to the teacher's lounge for lunch the next day because even though we hoped and hoped that at least a couple of parents will show up...the teachers are the only ones there. That's right. We care about your child's education. We're there till 8pm even if you're not. We will continue to hope that maybe one day...all that food will be eaten.
According to researchers Karen Smith Conway (professor of economics at the University of New Hampshire) and Andrew Houtenville (senior research associate at New Editions Consulting), parental involvement has a strong, positive effect on student achievement.
“Parental effort is consistently associated with higher levels of achievement, and the magnitude of the effect of parental effort is substantial,” Conway said. “We found that schools would need to increase per-pupil spending by more than $1,000 in order to achieve the same results that are gained with parental involvement.”
(Click here for an excellent article by the Michigan Department of Education on the research-based benefits of strong parental involvement in schools.)
So after spending thousands of dollars and over 9 years attaining my BA and MA in Education and Psychology, after spending countless hours in workshops, classes and professional development seminars, and after spending days, weeks, months, years and my heart and soul teaching kids, I found myself at my school's monthly PTA (Parent-Teacher Association) meeting tonight. I am one of the teachers delegated to be a representative and I believe strongly in the positive affects that a strong PTA can have on a community. Especially one of our social-economic status.
I was exhausted: I've worked all day and Maelin has been having a hard time lately. There's been extra drama we've all been dealing with and she's been going through a "Mommy Stage" lately. Sandra literally had to yank her off of me this morning so I could get to work on time. She was grabbing my neck and screaming, "Momma...Momma...don't leave you!" and sobbing hysterically. Needless to say, I cried all the way to work.
But I digress. So there I was at the PTA meeting with 2 other teachers, the principal, the school secretary and the assistant principal. We have been advertising this meeting for weeks: it's on the school marquee sign, it's in the monthly and weekly newsletters, we put stickers on each kid on the day of the meeting to remind the parents and we send home PTA brochures in English and in Spanish at least 3 times a year inviting everyone and anyone to please come join us.
We have a school population of about 595. Guess how many parents were at the PTA tonight?
Three. There were 3 parents there. The President, the Secretary and the Treasurer. That's it folks. Not a single parent came besides the officers. Not a one.
Oh, there's many reasons for this. Lots of our parents work 2, 3, or even 4 jobs. We offer free baby-sitting so the parents know they could bring the kids and we'll watch them for you, so that's not the issue. Some parents don't have transportation to get there...but our school is smack-dab in the middle of a ton of houses where I know for a fact our kiddos live, so it's not that far of a walk. We also provide translation services so if a Spanish-speaking parent wanted to come, everything would be translated.
So what's the problem? I wish I knew.
It's really hard to get behind the government's push to create better schools, hire better teachers, raise test scores when I KNOW that if we could just get the darn parents to support their child and the school, our scores would skyrocket! There's nothing I can do about that...except to continue to provide food for the PTA meetings.
And then bring all the uneaten leftovers to the teacher's lounge for lunch the next day because even though we hoped and hoped that at least a couple of parents will show up...the teachers are the only ones there. That's right. We care about your child's education. We're there till 8pm even if you're not. We will continue to hope that maybe one day...all that food will be eaten.
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Pumpkin Patch 2009
Our annual trip to the Cottonwood Farms in Boulder was last weekend...just before the big snowstorm hit. If you've been following this blog for a while, you'll remember we've taken Maelin to this pumpkin patch every year since she was a baby and we all love it. It's quickly becoming a favorite Halloween tradition.
This year was actually more fun than past years because Maelin is such a busy little girl now. She didn't stand still for more than two seconds and had so much fun pulling the wagon and running through the hay maze with Uncle Jeff and Boppy. She tried to get her own pumpkin (it was just a bit too heavy for her so Daddy found one that was just the right size), tried to eat it, waved at everyone, patted the animals, played with the kittens, mooed at the cow, played in the dirt, yelled and screamed and had a fabulous time.
Gosh she's fun. We are so lucky to have her. Here are a few pics from our day. Enjoy!
This year was actually more fun than past years because Maelin is such a busy little girl now. She didn't stand still for more than two seconds and had so much fun pulling the wagon and running through the hay maze with Uncle Jeff and Boppy. She tried to get her own pumpkin (it was just a bit too heavy for her so Daddy found one that was just the right size), tried to eat it, waved at everyone, patted the animals, played with the kittens, mooed at the cow, played in the dirt, yelled and screamed and had a fabulous time.
Gosh she's fun. We are so lucky to have her. Here are a few pics from our day. Enjoy!
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